I had no idea it’d be this hard. I didn’t know the emotions that would come with it.
Here I am sitting on the couch, just after tucking the boys to bed, with tears rolling down my eyes.
Tears of gratitude that I get to be their mom.
Tears of sadness that time seems to be slipping away. Calvin’s starting kindergarten. When did he get old enough for that?
Tears that Miles is speaking full sentences, his voice changing. He’s not so little anymore.
Just as I’m trying to talk myself out of crying, Miles jumps out of his bed and comes running over asking for a hug (we are still sharing a living and bedroom space in the basement, while the upstairs gets renovated).
He squeezes my neck and rubs his chubby cheeks against mine, with a whisper in my ear.
“Momma, you’re the best hugger ever”.
Damn it. Release the floodgates.
“Thanks buddy, but I think you’re the best hugger ever”.
Then Calvin gets out of bed, comes over and says “Love you Mom, can I have one more hug too?”
I am sure they are just killing time so bedtime gets pushed a later, but I’d rather think that they knew mommas heart needed it.
I know there are so many things to be excited about, as they grow, I’ve witnessed so many already. I truly am excited for what’s to come for them both.
Yet, it’s hard to say goodbye to these tender young moments. It’s hard to realize just how quick they grow. When you’re with them, deep in the trenches day in and day out, you don’t notice. Then one day passes, and your kid isn’t fitting in his clothes anymore and looks (and acts) years older after a haircut.
People say from the beginning “It goes quick”. I had no idea. The days felt long, nights even longer when they were babies. I would be excited for their next milestones. Now I just want to hit pause.
But life doesn’t work that way.
So I cry a little, I get hugs from my favorite little men, and I sit in all the feelings. I soak them in, and I smile with the realization that it’s only the beginning.
Guess I should stock up on the Kleenex. ❤️